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IFS and polyamory - good therapy for those who are not monogamous

June 7, 2021 Alessio Rizzo
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Learn what to look for in a psychotherapist when you want to bring your polyamory to your sessions. IFS (Internal Family Systems) could be a good model for you.

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In General Mental Health Tags IFS, polyamory, LGBT
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How to change limiting beliefs - A comparison between IFS and CBT

April 18, 2021 Alessio Rizzo
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In this article, I am going to describe how IFS works with clients to change limiting beliefs that no longer serve a purpose in life, and how it is different from CBT.

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In General Mental Health Tags protectors, IFS
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The 6 F's in IFS - The 6 Steps to get to know our protectors

April 10, 2021 Alessio Rizzo
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Find, Focus, Flesh out

Feel towards, Befriend, Fear

Learn about the 6 steps that IFS (Internal Family Systems) Therapy uses to get to know Protectors.

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In General Mental Health Tags IFS, protectors, Self
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Productivity stress - the anxiety of overachievement from an IFS perspective

April 7, 2021 Alessio Rizzo
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Productivity

Is it healthy to be productive all the time?

IFS helps us understand the stress we feel when we cannot stop being over-productive. This article talks about polarised protective parts and explain how IFS offers a way forward to reduce stress.

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In General Mental Health Tags IFS, anxiety, protectors
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IFS and the Victim Archetype - why we hold on to trauma

March 21, 2021 Alessio Rizzo
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IFS and the Victim Archetype

Sometimes we feel like a victim. Learn how IFS deal with the Victim Archetype.

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In General Mental Health Tags trauma, protectors, IFS
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Honesty and Freedom are the basis for Love in Relationships

March 15, 2021 Alessio Rizzo
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Honesty and Freedom lead to Love

We can only feel Love if we are honest and free with ourselves and others… are we brave enough to do this?

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In General Mental Health Tags relationships
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What is Trauma and why it is so difficult to treat it

March 8, 2021 Alessio Rizzo
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Trauma & PTSD

What are they and why are they diffuclt to treat

Learn what trauma and PTSD are and what makes them difficult to treat.

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In General Mental Health Tags trauma, PTSD
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IFS Protector Parts - What are Managers?

February 21, 2021 Alessio Rizzo
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Learn about Managers in IFS

Learn about Manager in IFS (Internal Family Systems). These protectors plan in advance and apply clear strategies to make sure certain (bad) things to not happen again. Sometimes they can get burdened in response to trauma.

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In General Mental Health Tags IFS, trauma, managers, Burden
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IFS Protector Parts - What are Firefighters?

February 20, 2021 Alessio Rizzo
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FIREFIGHTERS in IFS

Learn what they are and what they do

in IFS (Internal Family Systems), firefighters are parts that protect us when we are in some form of danger (real or perceived). Read to find out more.

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In General Mental Health Tags IFS, trauma
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IFS Protector Parts (Managers and Firefighters) - what are they?

February 15, 2021 Alessio Rizzo
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IFS Protectors

Managers and Firefighters

Learn what IFS (Internal Family Systems) protectors are and how a Manager is different to a Firefighter.

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In General Mental Health Tags IFS, protectors, managers, firefighters
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3 ways to understand what Self is in IFS (Internal Family Systems) Therapy

February 10, 2021 Alessio Rizzo
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Learn about Self in IFS

Self and Self-energy are key concepts to IFS (Internal Family Systems) Therapy. Learn how to understand what Self and Self-energy are. They are key to heal from anxiety, trauma and other mental health issues.

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In General Mental Health Tags IFS, Self, Parts, trauma
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How to heal anxiety with IFS (Internal Family Systems) Therapy

February 9, 2021 Alessio Rizzo
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Heal Anxiety with IFS

Learn how IFS (Internal Family Systems) Therapy can give you the tools to deal with anxiety, procrastination and ambivalence by accessing your “inner system”

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In General Mental Health Tags anxiety, IFS, Trauma, procrastination, ambivalence
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What is gender fluidity

December 2, 2020 Alessio Rizzo
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Gender Fluidity

What is it?

Learn more about gender and gender fluidity.

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In General Mental Health Tags LGBT, Gender
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Why you haven’t healed from anxiety yet and how IFS can help you

November 25, 2020 Alessio Rizzo
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Why you haven't healed from Anxiety yet

And how to use IFS to heal anxiety

Learn how to heal anxiety with IFS (Internal Family Systems) and who you have not healed from anxiety yet. Time for a change!

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In General Mental Health Tags anxiety, IFS, Healing
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OCD - what is it and what is in common among people suffering from it

November 17, 2020 Alessio Rizzo
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OCD creates incredible suffering. Here is what I have discovered after years of work on it.

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In General Mental Health Tags OCD, anxiety
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Getting out of the Drama Triangle

June 6, 2020 Alessio Rizzo
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Learn how to come out of the roles of the drama triangle (rescuer, persecutor, and victim). Use your feminine and masculine qualities to create new behaviours.

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In General Mental Health, Channeled Article

The energetic nature of trauma and how it affects our life

May 25, 2020 Alessio Rizzo

Trauma is the result of blocks in our energy systems. These blocks, ruptures and barriers cause distortion in our perception of the world, projections, and also stop the light that we receive and give to the world.

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In General Mental Health, Channeled Article Tags trauma, projection, light, shadow, archangel
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Covid-19 anxiety for people living away from their family

March 23, 2020 Alessio Rizzo
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This is what is means to live away from home during the spread of Corinavirus (Covid-19). The key is to hold on to hope and to care for each other.

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In General Mental Health, Channeled Article Tags coronavirus, covid-19, anxiety, hope

Corona virus (Covid-19) Anxiety

March 17, 2020 Alessio Rizzo
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We are going through unprecedented times. We have never been so connected to each other. It has never been easier to travel, share and communicate from one point of the globe to another, and this means it has never been easier to spread a virus.

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In General Mental Health, Channeled Article Tags anxiety, coronavirus, covid-19

Brexit Anxiety

October 24, 2019 Alessio Rizzo
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Learn how to face the uncertainty of Brexit. Understand what is causing your anxiety about Brexit.

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In General Mental Health Tags anxiety, Brexit
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